First I want you to know that you are not alone – I will be with you every day.

At first, you will ask yourself why did you have to make me a part of your life.

I know that you will talk about me to your family and friends and your words will not always be kind. I understand the burden I have placed on you.

I will be the cause of some of your darkest moments but at times, also give you hope. I hope you will celebrate the small milestones that we achieve, together.

I will require a great deal of your time and I admit that I need a lot of attention. I don’t mean to consume your life and make it all about “me” – but that just is the way it is.

I am going to need small favors from those who know and love you because they will have to help you help me.

There will be times that I embarrass you and make you self conscious – that is not my intention. I hope you will use those moments to let yourself shine.

I realize there are times where you would like to leave me behind – if only for one day. I am sorry but that is not an option . . even when you take a vacation – I won’t.

I will be a constant reminder of the word commitment and I will try to force you into giving up – but don’t. I want you to prove to me that quitting is never an option.

I know there is a part of you which blames me for the worst days of your life. I can understand your resentment of me at times.

And, as some will try to separate us forever because they think it is best for you – there is a small part of you that believes I have made you what you are …


that I have been the reason you appreciate every sunrise, every hug, every laugh and every day that I am still with you.

I am your disease, I am your disability, I am what makes you strong.
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